Alternative title: Happy Birthday Rajah Linaban
I guess it's a given, that everything 2nd borns do are compared to their eldest siblings experiences in their parents eyes, so siblings do crazy things often to differentiate from the elder.
We did not get the repeat waterbirth/homebirth. Instead we get a funny story.
I've already blogged about the frustrating hospital visit we took 3 weeks ago when labor stalled.
What followed was just waiting, and walking, and trying everything to naturally induce the baby, and watching underwear for leaks or mucus plugs or water breaking.
Everytime it seemed like I was going into labor (consistent but painless contractions, spaced evenly apart), they'd stop after an hour or two.
I lost morale by the day. There was conflicting information about my actual due date, so I didn't even know if I was past due yet. The doctor was worried about baby's increasing size, and I was worried about all the backlog I'd left in Cebu (hi Binisaya).
She said that if he wasnt out by week 41 day 4 (last saturday), she was going to get me started on oxy (pitocin).
Chris and I discussed. We weighed out options, pro's and cons. We decided to get a second opinion.
On week 41,day 3, we visited another OB who was chunkier but stopped birthing, reasons unknown. Ultrasound revealed baby was great, not that big yet, and was doing fine. Baby's AOG was 38 weeks. When I told her tho that I'd been 5cm for 3 weeks, she said she'd induce me. She performed reflexology on my foot and found a particularly nasty knot on my right foot.
I started having intense but painless contractions in the car on the way back home, but when we got there, contractions stopped.
A week later (last night), I was at the hospital and my doctor was writing the request for the drugs for induction.
We were supposed to come in the previous day, but the hospital was fully booked. We spent the day on pedicures, thrifting for breastfeeding friendly tops, and barbecue. Creature comforts before the slaughter.
Throughout these activities tho, contractions were coming in at 6-8 minutes apart. I didnt take them seriously tho since they didn't hurt.
So at 9:10, I was given an IV with pitocin and something to soften my cervix. Doctor didnt bother with an I.E.
Again, I was given a room upstairs, and told to inform the nurse if anything hurt.
I think I took a nap, and woke up at 11 to HELL.
I thought it was the drugs. I had no idea this was already transition.
My thinking brain was like "Oh no, 4 - 6 hours of this is impossible!", and it promptly shut down.
I read somewhere before that you had to keep your jaw slack, so I was trying to contradict the impulse to grit my teeth through the pain and just wait for it to subside, willing my body to open.
I made Chris time the contractions and push against my hips whenever a wave hit. I felt like a crocodile, ready to bite him whenever he'd ask me if I was going through a contraction. I could not speak, so I'd squeeze his arm at the onset of one. Contractions were minutes long and spaced at 3-4 minutes apart. And they would not stop for anything.
Even for nurses in cat masks coming in to check on my bp and baby's heart rate.
Even bathroom breaks. Because I felt like pooping but immediately collapsed on all fours on the bathroom floor asking for hot water to be poured down my back. In retrospect I realize Chris had no idea what was going on either. I cursed under my breath at how slow the blessed water was to come.
I did not want to leave that bathroom.
I was beyond all thought.
I had completely surrendered to my body.
For example, when a wave hit, my body felt like jiggling. And then my brain was like "heeey, this is helping! Good idea, we'll do that"
My mouth opened and I started vocalizing and brain still didn't get the memo.
My hand went under my crotch involuntarily and I still didn't realize that I was crowning.
Then another nurse arrived and told me I needed to move to the delivery room.
On a wheelchair.
I wanted to yell "BUT I CANT EVEN SIT WOMAN!"
My mom and the nurse (the same midwife who assisted during Malaya's delivery) coached me to breathe, as we made a mad dash to the labor room.
I feel sorry for her, I must've been a difficult patient, struggling against the wheelchair while she was just trying to get me from point A to B as soon as possible. It was not a short ride. On the wheelchair, I'd blocked them out. I jiggled and the nurse was concerned I was having a seizure. I stretched my legs and she had to provide counter weight.
By the time we got to the labor room, I could hear nurses panicking around me. "Sa Delivery na na!" "Wa pa si doc" "mam ayaw sa'g utong!" I popped, water gushed out (in a moving wheelchair so we're all clear here) and while that relieved the pain by a bucket (hehehe) my body had decided to push without asking my brain.
And then I pushed, right when they wheeled me into the DR. One nurse was like "Mam, ayaw sa!" Body was like "HELL NO", and my mouth went "But he's coming!"
And his head was out, followed shortly by the rest of him.
Rajah Chawdhury-Linaban was born at 1:30am feb 1,2017 in a moving wheelchair at the Biliran Provincial Hospital. He weighed 3.45 kilograms and latched like a pro.
I managed to scream AYAWG PUTLA when I heard one nurse asking for a clamp through the haze of wuv and affection that followed after my former tenant was put in my arms.
Fortunately one of the nurses (the one with a cat mask) knew about lotus birth and explained to the others. The doctor arrived shortly and cleaned me up (no tears!) and waited for the placenta. They put it in a kidney dish and carried it with baby while they weighed him/cleaned him up.
Things may not have gone according to plan, and there was a little augmentation involved, but that was the most eventful wheelchair ride I will probably ever have in my life. The hospital staff was respectful of my kooky requests regarding the baby's aftercare and for that I am extremely grateful.
We celebrated with ice cream and cake, in what is turning into our own little family tradition. After all, what's a birthday without cake and candles?
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| I can't read it either. I tried. I can make out Happy and Birthday, but the rest is mysterious. |
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| Malaya is waiting for the photo to be over with so he can get icing. (spot the cord!) |
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| King of grand entrances, this boy. |
P.S. Malaya's face when he first saw his brother lit up like it was Christmas. :3
